CAMP FIRE LESSONS: Leadership & Speaking lessons I’ve learned around a campfire
If you’ve know me for a few years, you know I’ve been around a few campfires in my life time…..possibly a few thousand times! There's something magical about gathering around a campfire. As the flames dance and crackle, a sense of camaraderie fills the air. It's a space where stories come alive, where laughter and vulnerability intertwine. Little did I know that this seemingly simple setting would become the stage for some of my most profound lessons about leadership and public speaking.
The Power of Authenticity
Sitting around a campfire, surrounded by friends, authenticity reigns supreme. It's a place where pretenses fade away, and genuine connections are forged. Applying this lesson to public speaking, I discovered the power of being true to myself on stage. Embracing my unique voice and perspective not only captivates the audience but also allows me to connect with them on a deeper level. And every leader knows that a “real you is always better than a fake you”
The Art of Storytelling
Campfires are synonymous with storytelling, come on somebody. They have the ability to transport you to different worlds, elicit emotions, and spark your imagination. I realized that incorporating storytelling into my speeches, presentations or teachings made them more engaging and memorable. By weaving personal anecdotes and narratives, I could evoke emotions and leave a lasting impact on my audience.
The Value of Active Listening
Everyone has a chance to share their stories and be heard while grilling hot dogs or roasting marshmellows around the fire. I realized that in order to be a good public speaker, active listening must be involved. By genuinely listening to the audience's needs and desires, I can tailor my message to resonate with them. It's through listening that I discovered the power of empathy and connection, which are crucial for any leadership position and speaking commitment.
Embracing Imperfections
Campfires have a way of embracing imperfections. From the flickering flames to logs not burning the way you want them too (can I get an amen!), it's the imperfections that make the experience authentic, endearing, I’d add memorable. Applying this lesson to public speaking, I learned that it's okay to stumble, pause, or show vulnerability on stage. In leadership, it’s ok to not have all the answers, to doubt or even make mistakes, unwillingly of course. Embracing imperfections creates an atmosphere of authenticity and me (and you) human.
Overcoming Fear
Sitting there, on a log, a stump or even the ground, I witnessed friends and soon to become friends, step out of their comfort zones to share their stories, anxieties and fears. It taught me that fear is a natural part of growth. In the same way, leading yourself and a team can be (or should I say IS!) intimidating. Speaking in public is the same. Yet, when you step up to face your challenge(s), you allow personal and professional development. Embracing the fear, acknowledging it, and pushing through it ultimately leads to growth and confidence…and don’t you and I need more of it?!
The Importance of Preparation
A well-built campfire requires careful preparation, from gathering the right wood to arranging it in a strategic manner, all of it is important. I was never good at starting the fire (still am not!), but man, I am good at encouraging those that get the spark to become a fire. Similarly, a good speech requires thorough preparation in order to spark thinking or change in your audience. Researching the topic, organizing thoughts, and rehearsing are essential steps to deliver a compelling message. The campfire taught me the importance of investing time and effort into preparation for success.
I've learned those lessons around the hundreds of campfires I’ve been around. It has profoundly impacted my leadership style and my public speaking journey. Thank you to all the friends, camp chaperones and my own family for your input, your lives and openness. So, the next time you find yourself sitting around a campfire, take a moment to reflect on the invaluable lessons it offers.
